set up a written family loan agreement in minutes with Chipkie<\/a>, making the whole process straightforward and professional \u2014 so you can focus on finding the right home.<\/p>\nDisclaimer:<\/strong> The information provided in this article is for informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Property and lending laws in the United Kingdom vary and may change over time. We always recommend consulting with a qualified solicitor and mortgage broker before entering into a property purchase or financial arrangement with another party.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Discover practical tips on how to ask parents for deposit help, from preparing your finances to having the conversation with confidence. 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